No, that doesn't quite fall into what you've described, sorry.

Complimenting comes the closest, but flirting should be light hearted... if you're complimenting in a serious fashion "you look very nice tonight" "wow, your hair looks cute" "you're beautiful" "mmm, you smell good" those are compliments and mostly serious. flirting is light hearted and fun.



Also, you mentioned "whorelike women." Would that be the male version of a player?

I think, if they is something you absolutely can't do, is be all hers and do everything while she does nothing, she will probably take humongous efforts for given, and she will think you can forgive everything she does, problem usually ensues.

don't be silly, women want me

Liche, I want you.... not to tell that kind of stuff, you are still too young!

(lul cannot resist!)

this is all verry simple you guys drop 100 pounds first off (no mater what you look like you can find SOMEBODY but jesus man at what cost)

lose some weight switch to contacts use small words its ok to talk down on them but inlyif there stupid enough to see it as a compliment

be an ass to evreyone else but a sweetie pie to her
women lovee that

also leave highschool those women are NOT worht the time you put into them shoot for some one older 20-35 (yes if your 18-20)

not only are they less drama but they kow what there doing... you get mypoint


high school only lasts so long hel i couldnt get a date there ifi tried but now on the other hand, the tables have turned and i get some here and there, none i realy care about (yet but i still looking)

hahahaa i was a bit harsh (im a wee bit pissed at women at the moment )

but seriously women dont want a sweet sensitive guy if they do STAY AWAY caus they want to dominate you (my father forinstance his wife is more man than he is now)

when i say women want aguy whos an ass to evryone else but sweet to her what i mean is she wants a guy who is sweet to her but not sweet to evreyone else some one whos tough and dont take shit off of anyone

they feel more secure and for crists sake they should
this worls aint no fairy tale place myfriend you got to fight for whats yours evrey second of the day andf if you cant do that, maby you dont deserve that girl in the first place msn me for further discussion kingoflamegame@gmail.com

First of all, it's not matter of keeping low weight but a healthy fat to muscle ratio.

I hate when people say "Hey, lose some weight yo!" when actually it could we be that what they should lose is fat and probably gain as much or even more weight in muscle.

Second, fortunately not all girls want the same just as not all men want the same kind of woman. We humans are all individuals so each man needs a different kind of woman as much as each woman needs a different kind of man.

october 17 wrote:

hahahaa i was a bit harsh (im a wee bit pissed at women at the moment )

Read my previous posts. I bet you haven't got a girl drain 25% of your life while she was a prostitute on your back.

october 17 wrote:

but seriously women dont want a sweet sensitive guy if they do STAY AWAY caus they want to dominate you (my father forinstance his wife is more man than he is now)

Women are not like some sort of animal or species with a definite set of needs or likes. All of them are individuals and have different interests and needs. Therefore, the idea that girls in general want some kind of guy is absolutely false. And, since men are also all individuals, if all women wanted a specific kind of male, then all men would be entirely fucked up.

It's just matter of finding the girl you need and for whom you should be the kind of guy shee needs.

october 17 wrote:

when i say women want aguy whos an ass to evryone else but sweet to her what i mean is she wants a guy who is sweet to her but not sweet to evreyone else some one whos tough and dont take shit off of anyone

Unless you're bisexual, I pretty much doubt you would consider being sweet to the male individuals with whom you have interaction. As for being sweet to other girls than your girl, well that pretty much depends on your girl and the way you've established your relationship to be. Actually I've met some girls that think you should treat all women in a special, more gentlemanlike manner and feel offended like they had been the object of your offense, if you don't have such attitude with all women.

Who doesn't take shit off no one? Who on his sane mind does? Or do you mean girls like irrational guys who immediately (try to) beat the shit out of anyone that acted a bit foolishly?

october 17 wrote:

they feel more secure and for crists sake they should

So in essence girls are like some fragile property or should be like it? Or maybe like daughters? Or both?

october 17 wrote:

this worls aint no fairy tale place myfriend you got to fight for whats yours evrey second of the day andf if you cant do that, maby you dont deserve that girl in the first place msn me for further discussion kingoflamegame@gmail.com

We got down from trees and out of caves already quite long ago my friend, mammoths are extinct already and we cannot cross the Bering Strait by foot anymore. Welcome to the XXI century.

"Yours" concept of property applied to a couple? If a girl is with you it's because you're what she needs not because you're feeding her something or struggling with others, unless that's what she needs in which case I'm definitely not interested in such a kind of woman.

"Deserve" that is determined by the girl in question, not even by circumstances.


In my view it all boils down to having whom you need and needing who needs you. As simple as that regardless of whatever needs these might be.

Struggling, bargaining, sacrificing, conflicts, opposition of interests all those shits just drain energies, just hurt both or all parts involved, waste time and in the end end up in nothing good. And I know because this consumed nearly 25% of my life, that pretty much how my only relationship (from when I was 15 until I was 20) went. I won't have such a thing anymore.

You need to know yourself and what you need and search for it.
Then you need to know the rest and if you want a girl you better know her and she better knows herself to see if you both fit.

It's matter of mutual satisfaction of needs, even if those needs are precisely mutually inflicted suffering, sacrificing and those shits. It's not matter of just struggling to fit.

When you don't fit there's no point trying out and struggle. There's no point trying to practice relationship necromancy with something that was never really alive. You don't try puting a square inside a traingular hole.

Or you find someone who suffices all your needs and whose needs you can suffice or you be prepared for negotiations and consesions or just never have a comitment. And this is an irrefutable axiom.

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no zelot she wasnt as prostitute it was free, my own stupid fault i should have seen it


and yes the loe weight argument ...and forthat matter my WHOLE argument was a bit tactless, but theres truth in it

If I lost 100 pounds I would be 0 pounds. And that is not physically possible. So dose that mean I will never have a girlfriend? :O

Pretty much lolwut.

- 30 punds i would be... LOL

lichie do you realy need to ask? and shurly you have mainly i wanted to see how much i could stir up with 1 ridiculus post, im a bit disiopointed as i only pissed off a few people but eh shows how active we are here


for rizzel