solpacvoicis Young Komsomol Member

Joined : 18 May 2008 Posts : 136
 | Subject: Re: exclusivity vs. "love" Wed May 21, 2008 4:29 am | |
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everyone says it takes a village but no one adheres to that
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felt like i should jump in at that part..
you will be raised by a "village", so to speak, no matter what, right?
i mean...as long as you aren't thrown into the woods the day you are born and by some extraordinary means, survive, you are going to be interacting with people. Interacting with people as a child means learning. That means you are being raised by those around you, in that they are preparing you for your life ahead...whether or not this is to your benefit is a different matter.
so...family, in a communal sense, will always exist...
and there will always be at least one main figure that is guiding you, which, if you take the most stripped down family, the single parent, then...in that sense, family will always survive
the society in communism protecting the family will help to weed out the bad parents ^_^
all that said...i think committing is probably optimal, since it keeps complications out of the way...however, whatever is comfortable for all parties involved, is good, yeah? |
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