@%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55

Subject: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 1:22 pm

today

i was talking to coolkidx on msn

my "mother" sneaks up be hind me and says "who are you talking to"
...i had that feelin i was bein watched for a while....
tho i admit it could have all been in my head

normaly i wouldnt care but i was talking about how i am an indian (no joke) and how i am drawn to the woods by an undescribable force and wanted nothing more than to meditate in the woods tho its -10 out

this is a side of me i generaly keep to my self...

i told her to mind her own damn buisnes and she smacked me

i told her hit me again and il hit you back

she replyd do that and il kick your ass like you never had your ass kicked in your life and if by some act of god i cant ...wel i WIL get some one who can to do it

... what kind of parent says that to the only kid they have thsat stil likes them a little?

my older bro hates her caus she stole $2000 (that i know of) from him

my older sis hates her beacaus shes a bitch and treats evreyone that isint her self like shit

for some reason i stil love her... maby

iis she trying to drive us away from her? does she just not ever want to know her grand kids?

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 5:03 pm

Wow that heavy dude, no offense but your mom sounds like a real b!tch(Don't hurt me) but if you smack your children because of that then its just a awful thing.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 6:14 pm

Shabazz would love this thread, hell yeah. Two posts straight that remember him to me Razz

Maybe your mother doesn't like you or she simply sees you as part of her properties in which case she believes that she can do anything she wants with you. Also, she may have some mental unstability.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 10:09 pm

no ofence taken i agree with you coolkidx

oh also i wanted to add....

she sais...i picked the wrong time of the month to tel her to mind her own damn buisnes aparentyl...so some how her pms is my fault to...

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 10:15 pm

While reading the past offences changed my mind, my FIRST thoguht was, "You deserved to be smacked, jackass!"

Let's face it. "Who are you talking to?" "Mind your own damn business!"

That's not a way to get someone on your side. But if she's done some of this other stuff.... But I don't know enough to judge. WHY did she steal the money? Do you guys KNOW she did it? Define "treating like shit". I just don't know enough to say.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Feb 15, 2009 10:23 pm

Tyrong Kojy wrote:: While reading the past offences changed my mind, my FIRST thoguht was, "You deserved to be smacked, jackass!"

Let's face it. "Who are you talking to?" "Mind your own damn business!"

But she smacked him, she(his mom) could always say "Don't be so rude and give me a normal answer" or something like that.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:38 am

Tyrong Kojy wrote:: While reading the past offences changed my mind, my FIRST thoguht was, "You deserved to be smacked, jackass!"

Let's face it. "Who are you talking to?" "Mind your own damn business!"

That's not a way to get someone on your side. But if she's done some of this other stuff.... But I don't know enough to judge. WHY did she steal the money? Do you guys KNOW she did it? Define "treating like shit". I just don't know enough to say.

sher admited to taking 2000 but it might be more

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Mon Feb 16, 2009 12:39 am

CoolKidX wrote:

Tyrong Kojy wrote:: While reading the past offences changed my mind, my FIRST thoguht was, "You deserved to be smacked, jackass!"

Let's face it. "Who are you talking to?" "Mind your own damn business!"

But she smacked him, she(his mom) could always say "Don't be so rude and give me a normal answer" or something like that.

and it wasnt the smacking that pissed me off it was her thretining to get her buds to kick my ass

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Mon Feb 16, 2009 5:59 am

As his mom she has the right to ive him a smack, especially if he spoke to her like that. And then he retaliated, and she did....

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Mon Feb 16, 2009 8:59 am

Tyrong Kojy wrote:: As his mom she has the right to ive him a smack, especially if he spoke to her like that. And then he retaliated, and she did....

I disagree. Unless she has a good reason to smack him, she doesn't have the right. Since she's the one who started the conflict she well deserved an agressive reaction.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Mon Feb 16, 2009 1:44 pm

eather way im out of that house (again) and this time i dont need anything from her (that il ever get)

so i dont ever HAVE to go back but im shure i will if only for a visit

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Sun Mar 08, 2009 3:34 am

It seems to be very hard with your mother.

Did you ever try being an example?

You know what I mean. Always talk in a polite way. I mean, there is no need to tell someone to go away, just because she wants to know what you are doing. Even if she said it in a bad tone.

You should try to prevent situations from escalating.

Subject: Re: @%$& all parents @%$& them up the @55 Wed Mar 11, 2009 1:15 pm

October 17, I'm not saying your mother is in the right. You're welcome to feel how you do and certainly justified. Parents do what they can and it's not always the right thing.

There's more to it than you've told us though and you can't get in her head. You don't know what she's feeling or thinking. She could have a mental disorder or just plain mean. She could have a physical condition that she doesn't know about that's making her feel "off" and ends up taking it out on you guys.

Does she drink? Heavily? Does she do any dope (even prescription)? If she's been this way your entire life, it could be that she shouldn't have had children.

I know a lot of it is that you're venting right now and you're hurting. Do you have no memory at all of any good times with her? What about your dad? Is he available or willing to intervene?

I agree with Kenzu though to a degree. You're 17. I don't know how big you are, but at some point, you could probably do your mother some real damage if you hit her (not nice to hit girls, even and probably especially if they hit you first). Did she smack you on the back of the head or did she slap your face?

Sometimes it takes you to be the bigger person. Be civil. I'm not saying "be nice" but when she does ask you what you're doing, perhaps next time just say "chatting with a friend online." If she asks what about, perhaps that'll open the door for more conversation and *maybe* could solve some problems with her.

I lost my mother last July to pancreatic cancer. She and I were friends, but right after she died, all that went through my head was the arguments we had, the fights and the times I backtalked her. That hurt me more than remembering the good times (there were a lot of really good times). I back talked my mother when I was 16 - she tried to slap me and I grabbed her hand and told her not to do that. She never did again. She wasn't an abusive mother! Not in the least. Honor thy mother and father.

You are living in her house. You have to abide by her rules (for now). Being civil or nice to her might tick her off more, but you can then walk away knowing you did the best you could.

A beaten dog is a lot of times just as loyal as one who has been treated like a king/queen. Love her and try to understand what she's doing too and why. Are you the youngest or the oldest? Middle child? Do you have someone you can talk to (priest for example)? If you tell your school, you're going to end up dealing with social services - never a good thing in the USA, but if you have only a little time to go until you're out, sometimes you can just grin and bear it. Are there young (newborn to 10) children in the house?

Not a good situation in any light and I wish you well on whatever decision you come up with. We're here if you want to rant Smile

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