Moral Dilemma

If someone does not want you to be nice to them, should you be nice to them anyway? Ex: Someone does not want something for their birthday. Should you give them something?

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yeah i usually do that, unless i am out of money than i just get a card

My best friend and I have agreed not to get each other gifts

so

if it is mutual

then it is cool not to

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I've always been here...

@markwhoiamveryangryat: what if it is not mutual.

Pannekoek wrote:

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Pankake's back!

I've always been here...

@markwhoiamveryangryat: what if it is not mutual.

1) i don't give a shit

2) i still wouldn't in order to teach them that they should tell people when they want something

I porobably should make it clearer. This is not about someone saying they don't want something-well it is, but they really don't want it, it's not just they say that but don't mean it.

Pannekoek wrote:

I porobably should make it clearer. This is not about someone saying they don't want something-well it is, but they really don't want it, it's not just they say that but don't mean it.

go with a card

Lol this is a hypothetical situation. The only birthday coming up is mine.

I'm going to eat lunch right now even though its 2:04. I'll be back shortly.

Yeah cause its a fun way to piss off other people with kindness^^

Most people just pretend that they don't care how people treat them but nearly everyone likes to be treated nice - unless their a masochist but even then their desire for abuse is purely sexual and in no way emotional.

Generally I think you should be nice to everyone.

However I get the feeling that you might be trying to be nice to someone who
dislikes you - in this case they may perceive your kindness as annoying or even agressive. Its not that they don't want you to be nice to them - they just not want to be near you full stop.

You prob shouldn't waste your time being kind to someone who dosn't even acknowlage the nature of your kindness. Be nice to everyone but dont talk to people who don't accept your niceness, it will only drag you down.

generally i thinkthat be nice if you want to be mean if you want to. kill them if you want to i dont give a damn.