Does love fuck everyone up ?

pm me. i have good comebacks

screw love, the answer to a good relationship is finding the cliterous

omg
your so right
im gonna go look at mn girlfirend for a long time

Alek4A wrote:

screw love, the answer to a good relationship is finding the cliterous

LOLZ, maybe so...maybe so...

In any case, love is like a heavy drug that fraks with your senses. It makes you unaware of anything but you and your loved one. :3c

Jeiro Sijakeuigwan wrote:

LOLZ, maybe so...maybe so...

In any case, love is like a heavy drug that fraks with your senses. It makes you unaware of anything but you and your loved one. :3c

I'd disagree...

Yea, some drugs sharpen your senses.

Zealot_Kommunizma wrote:

I'd disagree...

Well, disagreement is to be expected. Love is rather different to everyone. To some it feels like a heightened sense of awareness, others like an intoxicating drug.

At least to me it felt like a drug. X3

I feel your pain. Man, I do.

Alek4A wrote:

screw love, the answer to a good relationship is finding the cliterous

If you can't find the clitoris, then i'm sorry the public school system failed you so badly.

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Yea, some drugs sharpen your senses.

You seem like you're bein sarcastic with that little face at the end. But some drugs do heighten your senses. Anyone who smoked weed knows what i mean.

And as far as love being like a drug, i could see how that argument is valid in some ways. I don't think it necessarily blinds you, but it does give you a sort of high when the love is fresh. It's pretty intoxicating. That, and it'll make you dumber...

inkus2000 wrote:

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The first relationship that i honestly thought i was in love ended in half a bottle of drain cleaner.

then i had a very sexual but absolutely loveless relationship and now I'm in a nice between one. you gotta find balance man thats what its all about.

and as far as getting someone you like BE CONFIDENT thats the key man

you dont need 2 tell me - i wrote the book the book on woman

The problem seems to be social norms and status

For example - when she thought I was older she was all over me, even wanted to meet up - since I told her my age I have detected a marked diff in her attitude. I have not changed - so it would appear that external social factors have more significance than pure relationship when it comes to the selection process of females.

Their are ways around this of course - we can manipulate peoples perception of external factors - ie Im 28 years old and yes I have a car
It is after all true that we control how others perceive us.

The question is do you want to lie ? is it wrong to lie ?

I have concluded that its Ok to lie to someone who KNOWINGLY chooses on the basis of social norms and status provided your looking for a sexual relationship - however your fucked if you fall in love ! and your more than likely going to if you get on well - and then your done for because the same lie that got you what you have will make you loose what you have.

My prob Is I cant lie to someone I like yet alone love - so Im doomed
Were all doomed

AHHHGGHHH!

I think you have done the right thing to tell the truth. If she really cares that much about age, you shouldn't care about her. I know it's hard, but you will see. It will get better with time.

I think she is lost hope, but you will find someone who you know will truly belong to you!

The minute I told "Codename: Girl" about my ... uh... feelings, I've alienated her almost completely. Still get the "love" feelings, have done for FIVE YEARS.

you know waht sucks
saying i love you and then there like
ummm yeah okay
im note ready for that

As a short answer to the issue's question, yes. Yes it does.

My girlfriend was actually the one who told me she loved me, and I was the one who did the whole, "Um, okay." But not becase I didn't, simply because I had never thought she would have.

Kenzu wrote:

I agree with Zealot. It is not all about giving a girl sexual pleasure. She can get that anywhere.

I'd have to disagree here too Kenzu. At least I wouldn't like to have a girl that can get sexual pleasure anywhere. That means I need a girl who shares or is as close as possible to my sexual ideosincracy.

For me everything is intertwined. For me there shouldn't be sex without love nor compromise.

Kenzu wrote:

The truth is love is important indeed, but it has to come from both sides and it has to be a lasting love.

I'd argue real love is lasting intrinsically.

Kenzu wrote:

If it didn't work out with a girl, it probably won't last even if you ever went together again.

I'm the living proof you can make it last at your own expense for quite long.

Kenzu wrote:

You have to look for love until you find the true one.

Life is short though.

Kenzu wrote:

A relationship where both of you are happy with each other and don't look for someone better.

How can someone be better than the one that makes you happy?

Kenzu wrote:

Looking for a perfect girl\boy is a mistake too.

Perfection, a superlative of good, is relative. I consider we should aspire to it.

Kenzu wrote:

Nobody is perfect, except god,
but he lives in a world called dreamland.

Point adressed above.

Yes it fucks up pretty much everyone. Lately i have reached a state of total mental disorder (and i mean it) and physical pain because of that. I was completely out of my mind and couldn't do anything litteraly.

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I'd have to disagree here too Kenzu. At least I wouldn't like to have a girl that can get sexual pleasure anywhere. That means I need a girl who shares or is as close as possible to my sexual ideosincracy.

For me everything is intertwined. For me there shouldn't be sex without love nor compromise

I think he meant masturbation.

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

I think he meant masturbation.

Yeah, I also thought he included that with "anywhere". Doesn't change my statement though.

I can get sex anywhere too. THat doesn'tchage the relationship. Hell, I'll probably end us loving myself many times even when married, as will she, liekly. I mean, there's no direction needed, it's ALWAYS with someone you love, (unless you hate yourself, of course) and you don;t have to bother your parter if they're doing something. DOn't get me wrong, a woman who likes the same thigns I do and PREFERS me is great, but sometimes, well. Besides, I wouldn't mind it if she did so once in a while. I'm busy, she's horny, put two and two together. Or rather one and one. That was a good one. Sometimes I'd rather she go fuck herself, litterally, than bug me.

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

I can get sex anywhere too. THat doesn'tchage the relationship. Hell, I'll probably end us loving myself many times even when married, as will she, liekly. I mean, there's no direction needed, it's ALWAYS with someone you love, (unless you hate yourself, of course) and you don;t have to bother your parter if they're doing something.

Well I personally find masturbation a major nuisance, I try to avoid it as much as possible. I defintely hate to practice it. It has its advantages but they don't overweigh the disadvantages. (In my personal case)

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

DOn't get me wrong, a woman who likes the same thigns I do and PREFERS me is great, but sometimes, well.

In my case she ought to prefer me, otherwise, no relationship.

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

Besides, I wouldn't mind it if she did so once in a while.

In my case, I'd like her to conceptualize masturbation in the same way I do.

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

I'm busy, she's horny, put two and two together. Or rather one and one. That was a good one. Sometimes I'd rather she go fuck herself, litterally, than bug me.

And in my case if she's horny and I'm busy, then I stop doing what I'm doing and I attend her.

Love can make your heart race, butterflies in your stomach and waves of emotions come over you when your beloved steps in a room.

That's generally if it's mutual though.

Going after someone or falling for someone who is unattainable is generally not such a good idea. It usually always ends in heartbreak.

The age thing? Ugh. I don't know where you are but in the USA, 3-4 years isn't a big deal in your 20's.... 15 years difference isn't a big deal when you're in your late 30s and above. It's been pretty much accepted here. A lot of women go for the older man, but sometimes it's reversed. I'd prefer someone nearer my own age (within about 5-7 years, especially since men generally live approximately 7 years less than women). Youngest guy I dated was 9 years younger than me (I was 28, he was 19 and boy oh boy did he have some stamina). Oldest was again, 9 years older, I was 36 and he was 45 - not so much stamina but knew what he was doing.

You're still in the same generation as that girl though, but she might not have enough life experience to understand that love generally has no boundaries when it comes to age. I wouldn't date someone old enough to be my dad (ewwwwwwwwwwwwww), but 10 years older isn't such a bad thing.

Telling someone you love them though.... that's rough. It tends to scare people if they don't feel the same way. Usually ends up in a lot of heartbreak too

Kenzu said he didn't tell Sara until he was sure she had feelings for him. That's normal and completely understandable. Throwing your feelings out there is always a risk.

You'll know when it's right

Tyrong Kojy wrote:

I can get sex anywhere too. THat doesn'tchage the relationship. Hell, I'll probably end us loving myself many times even when married, as will she, liekly. I mean, there's no direction needed, it's ALWAYS with someone you love, (unless you hate yourself, of course) and you don;t have to bother your parter if they're doing something. DOn't get me wrong, a woman who likes the same thigns I do and PREFERS me is great, but sometimes, well. Besides, I wouldn't mind it if she did so once in a while. I'm busy, she's horny, put two and two together. Or rather one and one. That was a good one. Sometimes I'd rather she go fuck herself, litterally, than bug me.

If she's bugging you, you have a problem.

I HATE agreeing with zealot, but a man who can't take the time to have sex instead of doing whatever it is he wants to..... needs his head examined. Is your hand so much better?

There are times when 2 people can't get schedules straight - masturbation required. Women are more likely to masturbate while in a sexual relationship when men tend to not masturbate as much (unless you have a problem or sex is only 1x/week or less).

Self-exploration/Self-love isn't a bad thing. Just depends on how you look at it. If you're doing yourself more than the one you're with, problem. Healthy sex lives are always good though

For women, without emotion, sex is almost pointless. I much prefer having relations with someone I care about and I don't give it away without emotion. Women can have relations without the emotion, but then there's this hollow feeling afterward. And the emotion I'm talking about isn't lust

I wasn't being literal. I mean, of COURSE if she wants to I will. I'm a guy. He, he, he. But yeah,. NOT being literal with that.

your too old for Zealot I think.


(back to the drawing board.)

Liche wrote:

your too old for Zealot I think.


(back to the drawing board.)

Who is too old? You aren't talking about me I hope!!!!!!

And I'm not sure ich was talking about wanting to be with Zealot