What do women want - in a partner ?

BE CONFIDENT let her know you can offer something no one else can. but be humble about it.

alek is pretty spot on, dont be an ass, be confident. there is a big difference between the two.
be there when she needs you. be humble and caring but she must also know you are also a man.
so something milder than stanley kowalski hahah.

beatnikzach wrote:

alek is pretty spot on, dont be an ass, be confident. there is a big difference between the two.
be there when she needs you. be humble and caring but she must also know you are also a man.
so something milder than stanley kowalski hahah.

follow these simple doctrines and anyone can get laid xp

haha yeah, how is the old lady alek?
where you at, in school i mean

beatnikzach wrote:

haha yeah, how is the old lady alek?
where you at, in school i mean

Robertson right now, shes good... kinda high maintnence though. not in the sence that shes needy but the narcolepsy makes her kinda moody. hows things goin with you?

im in the comp lab should i swing down there?
ya i know how being moody goes, when she gets like that does it anger you from fear, or is that just me? haha
we are going good, i kinda feel the need to beat the living shit out of ryan benjamin though.

There's not a "standard" type of man women want.

Women are more adaptable to the social situation in which we're found that's why most of them will search a man who like them understands the demands of this system and as them is equally adpated.

Most of my female friends are real sluts. I can even tell them "Hey dear, you're a whore" and they will giggle and agree. My girlfriend, who has been my only girlfriend and with whom I've been 5 years turned out to be a prostitute and lately has even asked me to buy her 600USD telephones... Like several women, they see relationships as some sort of prostitution contract or something lke that.... She excpects, just like most of my female friends, a man that will please all her caprices, that will please her sexually, give her all the freedom she wants (even if that implies having sex with other men, affaires and completely detaching from that man), strong, healthy and attractive, hardworking (to please her capitalist caprices) and demand as few as possible. In other words a guy that will give his entire energies and efforts to her in exchange of nothing... like I have fucking done the last 5 years with her. I guess I'm breaking up with her soon...

So basically my friends, the kind of man women expect depends on the kind of women they're.

So the kind of woman I want must be extremely intelligent, loving, beautiful, healthy, extremely sexual (and must share my sexual ideosincracy), loyal, open-minded, objective, active, conscious, thoughtful, sensible, someone who loves her work because of the sake of it, humble, non-materialist, non-income oiented, honest. And so must expect the same from her man, that is, someone like me.

If I can't find that, too bad for me, it means I'll have to withstand celibacy, loneliness and great frustration until the day I die.

I believe everyone can find a girl like you have mentioned: intelligent, beautiful and with all the other character traits too. The only problem is that most women are the opposite of what you look for. And that's why you should make sure you will not fall for them, so that you can find your true love.

Sounds nice Kenzu, but I'm not quite sure. There are probably too few of those women.

i got a beautiful, intelligent, anarchist girlfriend, and she was actually exactly what i was looking for >.<

beatnikzach wrote:

i got a beautiful, intelligent, anarchist girlfriend, and she was actually exactly what i was looking for >.<

Congratulations, I wish you the best luck.

Zealot_Kommunizma wrote:

beatnikzach wrote:

i got a beautiful, intelligent, anarchist girlfriend, and she was actually exactly what i was looking for >.<

Congratulations, I wish you the best luck.

thank you sir
she is in mexico right now though :[ cant talk to her for 5 days its killing me.

Sara wrote:

WoW....if someone can do everything I want and don't ask for anything.I will love him and devoted to him forever!!!

*Kenzu better takes notes*

Well, the thing is that if are devoted and love him, he has nothing to ask, you're giving him all he needs, at least in my case...

beatnikzach wrote:

thank you sir
she is in mexico right now though :[ cant talk to her for 5 days its killing me.

Oh she's in my country, I could give her a tour around the city Nah, just kidding, I have great respect for such nice couples.

I understand how it feels... the girl I'm talking about, my girlfriend is Russian and lives in Russia. I have seen her once per year in average (although we have lived together for months each time). But imagine whole twelve months of just chatting with her, seeing her in photos and ocasionally through webcam, send her money to buy her things, buy her phones... and then when being with her take a look at 40 photographies of her having sex with another man.... I don't wish that to anybody...

Zealot_Kommunizma wrote:

Sara wrote:

WoW....if someone can do everything I want and don't ask for anything.I will love him and devoted to him forever!!!

*Kenzu better takes notes*

Well, the thing is that if are devoted and love him, he has nothing to ask, you're giving him all he needs, at least in my case...

beatnikzach wrote:

thank you sir
she is in mexico right now though :[ cant talk to her for 5 days its killing me.

Oh she's in my country, I could give her a tour around the city Nah, just kidding, I have great respect for such nice couples.

I understand how it feels... the girl I'm talking about, my girlfriend is Russian and lives in Russia. I have seen her once per year in average (although we have lived together for months each time). But imagine whole twelve months of just chatting with her, seeing her in photos and ocasionally through webcam, send her money to buy her things, buy her phones... and then when being with her take a look at 40 photographies of her having sex with another man.... I don't wish that to anybody...

she is my everything.
well what city is you in comrade?
joking haha
wow man, that is terrible im sorry comrade, are you still together?

beatnikzach wrote:

she is my everything.
well what city is you in comrade?
joking haha
wow man, that is terrible im sorry comrade, are you still together?

I understand what you talk about... my girl used to me my everything too. I was devoted to her as if she was a godess.

I'm in Mexico City. Jokes aside, if I could be of any help I'd be most glad to

Yeah we're still together, but I'm seriously considering to break up with her... even if I love her more than everything.

Zealot_Kommunizma wrote:

beatnikzach wrote:

she is my everything.
well what city is you in comrade?
joking haha
wow man, that is terrible im sorry comrade, are you still together?

I understand what you talk about... my girl used to me my everything too. I was devoted to her as if she was a godess.

I'm in Mexico City. Jokes aside, if I could be of any help I'd be most glad to

Yeah we're still together, but I'm seriously considering to break up with her... even if I love her more than everything.

wow i mean if you can get to the coast line behind baja, or find me away there i would be so greatful
its a tough situation, actualy my old lady came out of a situation like that about six months ago, at the time me and her were best friends, and i saw how devistated she was, man its rough when the one you love doesnt seem to love you back, happens to all of us :[

beatnikzach wrote:

wow i mean if you can get to the coast line behind baja, or find me away there i would be so greatful

Oh she's in Baja California... somewhat far away from my city... If I was a bit richer I'd gladly pay you both a trip together. Or you a trip to her

beatnikzach wrote:

its a tough situation, actualy my old lady came out of a situation like that about six months ago, at the time me and her were best friends, and i saw how devistated she was, man its rough when the one you love doesnt seem to love you back, happens to all of us :[

Well she found you and you found her.

Zealot_Kommunizma wrote:

beatnikzach wrote:

wow i mean if you can get to the coast line behind baja, or find me away there i would be so greatful

Oh she's in Baja California... somewhat far away from my city... If I was a bit richer I'd gladly pay you both a trip together. Or you a trip to her

beatnikzach wrote:

its a tough situation, actualy my old lady came out of a situation like that about six months ago, at the time me and her were best friends, and i saw how devistated she was, man its rough when the one you love doesnt seem to love you back, happens to all of us :[

Well she found you and you found her.

its rocky point i believe, oh man that would be epic
haha ya man its the so great, i came out of a situation like a year ago so it is amazing.

beatnikzach wrote:

its rocky point i believe, oh man that would be epic

Yeah it is a rocky point If I could I'd be most glad to help all my comrades, specially if it's on a love matter

beatnikzach wrote:

haha ya man its the so great, i came out of a situation like a year ago so it is amazing.

Yeah... I can just imagine how it might be

well thank you very much comrade, if you ever need help in southern california i could try to hook it up.
ya its pretty great man, 2 month anniversy is today >.<

beatnikzach wrote:

well thank you very much comrade, if you ever need help in southern california i could try to hook it up.
ya its pretty great man, 2 month anniversy is today >.<

Thanks

Two months... ah.. so many things await you both

i got ya comrade
ya man
we have both liked each other for about a year and half though, even whille we were dating other people, little did we know it was killing us haha.

Saying that all women like to be mistreated is just ignorant, same as saying all mothers just want money.

Let's look at the opposite sex for a second, guys, each one is different, some may like the mean bad girl, some may like the nice girl, some may like brunettes some may like redhead/blond etc.

Now the same will be applied to girls, some may like to be mistreated, some would want a loving guy, some may want a helpful, some may even want a rich man, but does that mean they all want to be used? No.

Logic? - The un-popular guys in high school still do date other girls, do you think "nerdy" kids mistreat girls to get a date? My sister is dating a very nice guy, and does he mistreat her? Maybe by buying her a ring and saying he loves her, yes, otherwise physical or mental no.

Your view is some serious close-minded ideals

EDIT: My family is poor, and my father was always poor, that didn't stop my mom from marrying him.

This is not about nillerz.

I agree with Rename, every woman is different. Unfortunately nonetheless, my experience has showed me much more whorelike women.